Nanoreefer- you can check out their price chart here:
http://www.tampabaysaltwater.com/thepackage/package_chart.html
I spent about $230 for my package- 32 lbs LR, 16lbs LS, cleaning crew, anenomes (mixed blessing- I still dont know what to do about them, wish he had given me other extras like brain corals, etc. that they sometimes throw in). You get it air shipped to laguardia for about $75 (since they ship in water they pretty much have to air frieght it, Fed Ex would costs a ton of $ for the weight).
With your small package you should ask him to ship it all at once so you don't have to pay twice for shipping. They usually ship in two batches, so the tank doesn't have one giant cycle. Shipping ends up costing a ton, if you include the cab ride there ($60 round trip). So I guess in total, if you include shipping and cab rides then I spent $500 (wow...hadn't added that up before- I hate shipping costs).
Josh-
That is some kind of oyster as far as I can tell. I have a couple on the rock- might be a clam, but I saw some giant oysters the other day and I think they resemble this one.
Deanos-
I really wish they hadn't been included with my rock- I had to put them in the tank so they wouldn't die, but I am really worried about them.
I like the look of the Condy, hopefully it doesn't move too much- seems to have anchored itself firmly and hasn't moved for 5 days or so...we'll see.
Think I'm going to take the Flower anenome to the fish store- not really that great looking and it keep moving around.
I don't really know how my flow is exactly- the Tunze mini pumps I have going give me about 14X Turnover. Then I am not sure if you would add the Remora w/ Maxijet, and AquaClear 70.