jarret you can count me in for dutch as well... my fiance just got certified so i want to bring her up there as well. so let me know
I learned the hard way (twice), never to dive with a significant other. Especially if your skill level varies by a lot of dives.
I'm very particular about who I dive with. If I haven't dove with someone before, I always tell them that we're both solo divers who happen to be diving together. I may come off like a jerk, but I once put myself in danger looking for another diver (who was an experienced wreck diver) after he surfaced without letting me know he was going up.
Since a bunch of people may be getting together to dive this season, I'll offer some dive buddy advice.
1. You are a solo diver, even if you have a dive buddy. Never rely on someone else while underwater. Hopefully if something goes wrong, they will be there, but you can't count on it.
2. Have a dive plan. Where are you going? What is your maximum depth? Where will you meet if you get separated? Cover as many situations as possible ahead of time in case something happens.
3. Know your buddy. How much experience do they have? What are their motives on the dive? If your buddy wants to take macro pictures of seaweed, and you want to explore as much as possible, find a new buddy for the dive.
4. Review equipment. Go over your equipment, and that of your dive buddy. Make sure you know where everything is on your buddy's equipment and that they know where everything is on yours. For instance, I dive with a technical diving configuration. One of my secondaries is on a 7 foot hose, and one is bungeed around my neck. If you run out of air and try to grab the one around my neck, you won't get far. I tell anyone I dive with that if they need to quickly grab a reg from me, they should grab the one in my mouth. Even if I can't reach up, I can nod my head and get the other one in my mouth.
5. Review hand signals. Make sure you agree on hand signals. New divers will often give a thumbs up if they're ok. If I see this, I begin an immediate ascent, assuming something is wrong. Make sure that you're both using proper signals, and agree on what the proper signals are.
6. Call off an unsafe dive before it starts. If you feel in any way uncomfortable about a dive, don't be afraid to back out of it. NEVER let a dive buddy pressure you in to diving, or doing anything underwater that you're not comfortable with.
Now, with all of this talk about diving... I think I'm going to go dig out my gear and start doing some inspections on it! Let's all have a happy and safe dive season!