Love, lust, and relationships

[alrha]

that and jose found someone to keep him in line, she kicks his butt

jon, thats what marriage is.

if you want to park in her driveway, you better feed her meter or you'll get a court appearance.

 

[jhale]

that's an interesting way of putting it.

 

[DRZL]

That what happens when to post a thread about ,Girls,men ,money and sex ,

Hmmm....Did I miss something? I thought it was about me

Even though I'm pretty much very progressive minded, I admit that I DO get turned off by a girl who has sex on the first date,(at least for a real relationship) or has had many sexual partners. I guess this comes from the fact that my mother married my father a virgin, cant say the same for my dad but that "purity" has always had a special place (pedestal maybe?).

The way I think of it is, those images of her getting her vagina penetrated by anothers man penis (can u tell im being polite yet graphic?) are never gonna leave someones mind. And me knowing that someone else has been there before me kind of grosses me out sometimes. I know its sounds archaic but im being brutally honest, thats my first train of thought, followed by a progressive inflection, but it still my 1st thought nonetheless

And since theres is a tinge of testosterone in the air
Its NOT a size problem, k?
:kiss:

 

[alrha]

i agree. i think it is nice knowing that nobody else has ever "used" my wife before I did (and i am sure she also takes pride knowing that she is the only one that got to enjoy my "special tool")

 

[DRZL]

i agree. i think it is nice knowing that nobody else has ever "used" my wife before I did (and i am sure she also takes pride knowing that she is the only one that got to enjoy my "special tool")

I admit I like the new car smell too!


....now im just being nasty


but seriously.. :scratchch

 

[shrimpluva]

i agree. i think it is nice knowing that nobody else has ever "used" my wife before I did (and i am sure she also takes pride knowing that she is the only one that got to enjoy my "special tool")

I am glad to see there is still some morally ethical guys out there, no offense deep water, i just like their way of thinking better then to say only go for the girl if you are getting laid...

 

[alrha]

I am glad to see there is still some morally ethical guys out there, no offense deep water, i just like their way of thinking better then to say only go for the girl if you are getting laid...

but the bad news, luvagirl, is that the good guys are already taken.

start getting used to deepwater, it's better being in deepsh*t

 

[shrimpluva]

but the bad news, luvagirl, is that the good guys are already taken.

start getting used to deepwater, it's better being in deepsh*t

I am not giving up- he is out there somewhere

 

[DRZL]

Hey im not taken, im actually looking (hence thread), girls seem to just lump guys into the "*******" category and they end up messing it up for both parties.

(non-sex related)
Shrimpy how old are you, approximately?(i know a woman wont say exactly)

 

[yessongs]

I have a friend that married a virgin. Five years into there marriage she became curious about having sex with other men. He didn't see that coming, i understand her thinking.

DRZL, Dont rush it be a gentlemen, ask her for a date if her reply is no, politely ask if she would mind you asking again in the near future.
If she shoots you down like a wounded duck, move on. Sometimes when you can't have something you want it even more.

 

[Reef Guy]

Well all i gotta say is now days there is no such thing as a virgin, ESPECAILLY is college. Consider yourself lucky if you find a girl that has only been with 2 guys. Thats the lowest number I ever come across...usually its 5...6 and up. And this is only in the LI/Queens area i can only imagine the numbers for those who dorm.

 

[alrha]

Well all i gotta say is now days there is no such thing as a virgin

there still must be some. i cant imagine there being that many that simply choose to hold off till mariage (even if they do, they probably cave in at one point or another).

on the other hand, as a religious Jew, it is part of the religion to only have sex with your husband/wife, so it is a bit more common. My entire family (and extended) were virgins and married virgins, none of them have ever cheated.

(i guess if you didnt have sex at all till you got married for your religion, then you really arent going to be inclined to just start running around screwing everyone you see later on in life)

 

[shrimpluva]

Hey im not taken, im actually looking (hence thread), girls seem to just lump guys into the "*******" category and they end up messing it up for both parties.

(non-sex related)
Shrimpy how old are you, approximately?(i know a woman wont say exactly)

I am exactly 30 years old

 

[shrimpluva]

Well all i gotta say is now days there is no such thing as a virgin, ESPECAILLY is college. Consider yourself lucky if you find a girl that has only been with 2 guys. Thats the lowest number I ever come across...usually its 5...6 and up. And this is only in the LI/Queens area i can only imagine the numbers for those who dorm.

as far as virgins go, i dont think i know any. girls are having sex younger and younger these days. To be quite honest I waited a long time to have sex and I have had only 2 partners since then. I cant see staying a virgin till marriage bc it may lead to curiosity but i guess if you dont know what your missing it wont hurt either and what if your not compatible with the one guy you gave it to.

 

[DEEPWATER]

WOW ,,,Slow down the thread too too much to read ,,1 hr away from the comp ,,2 more page ,,thread blow out ,

 

[jhale]

WOW ,,,Slow down the thread too too much to read ,,1 hr away from the comp ,,2 more page ,,thread blow out ,

hehe, I remember when you freaked out over the late night thread.

it's blow up by the way, not blow out

 

[Reef Guy]

Well im sure there are SOME...the super religious ones. I go to school in Nassau, which has a decent size jewish population and for the most part they are some what religious but they are far from waitin untill marriage. Btw the starting age now is around 13 which is proly hard to believe for you older folks.

there still must be some. i cant imagine there being that many that simply choose to hold off till mariage (even if they do, they probably cave in at one point or another).

on the other hand, as a religious Jew, it is part of the religion to only have sex with your husband/wife, so it is a bit more common. My entire family (and extended) were virgins and married virgins, none of them have ever cheated.

(i guess if you didnt have sex at all till you got married for your religion, then you really arent going to be inclined to just start running around screwing everyone you see later on in life)

 

[alrha]

WOW ,,,Slow down

Ronen, you didnt come across to me as the kind of guy that likes things slow.

Dave deffinitely needs to release.

 

[alrha]

Well im sure there are SOME...the super religious ones. I go to school in Nassau, which has a decent size jewish population and for the most part they are some what religious but they are far from waitin untill marriage. Btw the starting age now is around 13 which is proly hard to believe for you older folks.

dont have to be SUPER religious, i am in a regular orthodox community. obviously it is not 100% virgin-proof, but there is at least, i would venture to guess, a 75% virgin rate.

13, cant really get much younger than that i guess, 12 must be the limit because at 11 they are not even vaccinated for cooties yet.

 

[yessongs]

Premarital sex has been around a lot longer then any religion.