Love, lust, and relationships

[inkblue]

i just want sex... :smokin: but i think either way sex plays a big role in a reLationshiP, by sex i mean making love, not ******* :yeah: :yo:

 

[jhale]

Agreed! :sgrin:

I would much rather be poor and have great sex, then rich with no/bad sex.

I agree. But I imagine it's not easy to have great sex when your poor all the time. As Albert said finance does come into play. if your worried about paying the bills then good sex will be tough to concentrate on. you know it takes work. it is what keeps good relationships together though.

So I'd have to say I'd rather be having great sex and be able to pay my bills, rather than win powerball and have bad, or no sex the rest of my life.

Shrimpluva, hey, for the record I've had two long term relationships start from first dates that ended in sex, and this was not something I did all the time before any conclusions are drawn. I think if two people are single and attracted to each other then..., well you get the idea. I would not go on a first date expecting that to happen, but if it does then so be it.

Kris your still way to young to worry about this
Why don't you try going out on a few dates, stop buying reef equipment so you can afford to take girls out, lol. at this point in your life you need to find a balance between the reef and your social life. Once your married and not having sex anymore, then you can spend all your money and time on your reef :sgrin:

 

[shrimpluva]

shrimpy, is there any other name you go by?

No, why do you ask?

 

[inkblue]

hmmmmm....

 

[shrimpluva]

hmmmmm....

que pasa?

 

[inkblue]

nada :smokin:

 

[shrimpluva]

i just want sex... :smokin: but i think either way sex plays a big role in a reLationshiP, by sex i mean making love, not ******* :yeah: :yo:

I do think you must be sexually compatible for a relationship to work but also i dont think you can "make love" on the first date.

 

[jhale]

eventually we all meet each other and start using our real names instead of screen names, that's why Albert was asking. of course it can get confusing for those that have not met each other yet.

 

[jhale]

er, I mean that's why alrha was asking.

 

[alrha]

Once your married and not having sex anymore, then you can spend all your money and time on your reef

hence all my upgrades:sgrin:.
j/k, i dont have kids yet, we are still having fun practicing.

 

[alrha]

er, I mean that's why alrha was asking.

good save.
shrimpy (you dont mind if i call you shrimpy, do you?), i cant imagine someone calling up "yes, can i please have an appointment with Dr. Shrimpy?"

 

[DRZL]

D- are you sorry you asked for opinions here,lol. I hope you take some of the good advice into account- I am curious to know how it all pans out

hahaa...nope im good, i just got back home and this thread has become a runaway train so I had to catch up . I didnt see her today, but I have class w/ her on friday, so im gonna ask her what shes up to later in the day. I think my restless mind is emboldening me. In the end shes not my boss or anything i have nothing to lose then maybe some self-inflicted awkwardness..
Also reflecting on it I think it is true that I'm concened w/ that I havent got her "hooked from the beginning" maybe its my pole? :icon16:..j/k ill work on it.

well i dont think he expected our resident marriage councler to chip in here.

LMAO!

you got a point! but thats great we really seem to have a mixed group!

BTW
that info about being Lebanese was great food for thought, she also told me her father asked her to leave the hooters job, because he thought it was degrading.

 

[jhale]

that's Dr. Shrimpluva to you, lol

by the way shrimpluva, don't take any one too seriously when they are posting in the nudibar / our lounge.

 

[alrha]

I think if two people are single and attracted to each other then..., well you get the idea.

not that i would know (as i have not had sex before marriage) but i can imagine sex being exciting as long as you are with different partners simply because it is always new and different and exciting. But once it is always with the same person for the rest of your life (not including the office intern) then it can get less exciting, and at that point you better have something else to your relationship to keep it together. If you do have a positive relationship, you are also more likely to trust each other more and feel more comfortable trying different things to keep things spicy. In high school perhaps giving a girl a kiss on her neck may have been the most exciting thing, go out with a girl for a year, and i can bet it will take a lot more than a kiss on her neck for you to "rise to the occassion." the problem is that there comes a point where you can no longer "elevate" (pun intended) yourself to the next level because you have already done everything with that person.

Take grandparents for example, they are not together because of the sex, their relationship is at that point based on other things (perhaps their kids and grandkids which are all a result of the original deed?)

 

[jhale]

that info about being Lebanese was great food for thought, she also told me her father asked her to leave the hooters job, because he thought it was degrading.

I would do the same. who wants a bunch of horny drunk guys looking at your daughter in a tight tee-shirt :irked:

and I bet if you do end up dating her, you would not have been too happy about that job after a while, :lol:

 

[DRZL]

(Snooty Intercom voice)

Paging Dr. Shrimpy, Paging Dr. Shrimpy
A man stinking of skimmate and beer is here to see you

(Intercom closes)

:p

 

[alrha]

don't take any one too seriously when they are posting in the nudibar

i think the mere name of our lounge limits the capabilities to take anything here seriously. (except of course the price of gas).

WARNING: DO NOT DIGRESS NOW TO DISCUSS THE PRICE OF GAS. UNTIL THE PRICES GET A LOT HIGHER, SEX SHALL STILL TAKE PRECEDENCE OVER A TANK OF GAS.

 

[DRZL]

that reminds me

ME GUSTA LA GASOLINA!!!!

(Still sexual trust me)

Gawd I hate that song!

 

[jhale]

Take grandparents for example, they are not together because of the sex, their relationship is at that point based on other things (perhaps their kids and grandkids which are all a result of the original deed?)

sort of, the older you get the less important sex becomes, at that point you are together for the companionship, imo, and that is based on the previous years of being together which will work better if there is good sex, see how it's all tied together.

 

[jhale]

i think the mere name of our lounge limits the capabilities to take anything here seriously. (except of course the price of gas).

WARNING: DO NOT DIGRESS NOW TO DISCUSS THE PRICE OF GAS. UNTIL THE PRICES GET A LOT HIGHER, SEX SHALL STILL TAKE PRECEDENCE OVER A TANK OF GAS.

okay how about gas profits, specifically the 10bil exxon/mobil made in profits while crying about how katrina was hurting their business and jacking the prices up on us, can we talk about that maybe in the gas thread, bring it back.