So would we say that this myth is busted?
No, not really. Copper is absorbed by the silicone, rock, sand, filters and other equipment. It can be released over time and for some organisms it can be deadly, even in small amount, while others organisms can take it at high dosages without any problems. Once it is release it can be absorb by carbon or other media or other things, like like rock, sand and corals. Water changes may help to remove some but the thing is over what period of time will the copper be released? It could take some time, as it being released slowly, or something may bit into the silicone or a piece of rock and release a whole bunch of it at once.
Using tap water can also be a problem, as they do put in copper, especially when the water levels get low. In time it can built up, especially if you're not doing water changes or using carbon or poly pads. If you're using tap water, or well water, and get a very good test kit like Lamotte, you'll find that you probably have some level of copper in your tank and your polypad wouldn't even show any signs of blue. Now some fish and inverts don't seem to be bothered by levels of copper, even high levels, while others just can't take it at all.
It's a risk not worth taking especially since you'll never know if the problems that you're having is from the copper, that was in the tank and maybe now is being released, or something you're currently doing or not doing.