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Which, in my opinion, is exactly why you deserve the help if you need it.I just don't want to take something that may not be needed. And my pride plays a little part in it also.
Still want some cheesecake bites though!
Which, in my opinion, is exactly why you deserve the help if you need it.I just don't want to take something that may not be needed. And my pride plays a little part in it also.
I have just had a chance to log in and spent the better part of 5 minutes sitting here crying. Now that I am composed enough to type words CANNOT express how much you guys mean to my wife and I and we haven't even met half of you. You have ALL managed to turn her impression of internet forum members around and that WAS NOT an easy thing to do. You are ALL TRULY SPECIAL PEOPLE. Amazing in todays day and age.
I want to take a minute and let everybody know that as much as what you guys are trying to do is appreciated beyond words PLEASE hold off until we have a better idea of whats actually going to be the course of treatment. I was on the phone for the last 45 minutes with one of the consulting doctors and he feels based on what he has seen right now that there may be a good chance that the blood thinner route may work. We will have a much better idea by late Friday hopefully. The current thinking is to try low molecular weight heparin and/or warfarin to thin the clot and monitor the levels in his blood with routine blood work so that they don't cause him to internally bleed. They have assured us it is a safe, first stage treatment. Still has me on edge though. PLEASE understand it is not that I don't appreciate what you guys are trying to do. I can't express that enough. I just don't want to take something that may not be needed. And my pride plays a little part in it also.
I will keep everyone posted either by my own posts or through Jeremy. And seeing as we are on the subject of him I cannot tell you how incredible a person he is. He may twist nipples and SERIOUSLY break B**** but you'd be HARD pressed to find a better person. Thanks buddy!
On the Autism side my wife is a Coordinator of Special Education for a district on Long Island which has made that side of the issues a little easier but I do appreciate all the offers.
I am trying to go through all the PM's. PLEASE bear with me. I will answer all and get this figured out.
THANK YOU ALL AGAIN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART !! I will stay in touch.
Which, in my opinion, is exactly why you deserve the help if you need it.
Still want some cheesecake bites though!
Ugh I know it's sickening! After all the work he just put into it and just finally started putting corals in it. I really hope everything works out for you man. Don't sell anything yet hold off til you know for sure! We have your back.Damn Bobby I cant believe this. After all you been through setting this tank up and getting it running. Your Family is much more important and deserves your full attention right now. Good luck with everything, I hope it all turns out well. PM me about the stand/canopy, I might take that off your hands as I have a 65G sitting in my shed and might set it back up.
are we going to make a donation thread for him
Thanks again for the wishes everyone. Please hold off on the donation thread till I know for sure he will need surgery. Keeping my fingers crossed. Updated list of whats pending.
most of the time i dont listen to anyone but this time i will hold off on the thread just becuse you dont want it right now i hope that the blood thinner do the trick buddy :pimp:
Sorry. I typed I will take the tfl 150 if it is not claimed already.
I need that sump If he does not come to pick up I have the cash money in my hand right now to buy it pm me if he does not pick up. Sorry to here that.
Hey Bobby a co worker of mine just read your post and handed me $100 bill so I can give to you I will spread the love around to other people who also have a heart ...