So, I'll be the "Dad" of the forum. Been in this hobby for 40 years, all kinds of situations, Short term set ups, long term set ups, large tanks, small tanks, nano's, etc. SPS, LPS, combinations of the two. Also did commercial reef tank maintenance for a time.
The amount of time needed to dedicate to a reef is directly correlated to the size of the tank, among other things. Access to RODI water. Storage of water for water changes, disposal of water changes, landlords, smell (at times), spills, etc. It's a lot of work, even for a well established tank, which you do not have. In my opinion, it takes 1 to 2 years to fully establish/stabilize a reef. This is also dependent on the type of rock you purchase and the amount of care and time you apply to the reef.
You are a young guy, in a new home, in a new job, working 60-70 hours a week, "seeking relationships", cooking or eating/drinking out, potentially moving in 1 to 2 years.
If you were my son, , I'd say stay with the pico, or maybe go up to a 5 - 7 gallon and enjoy your new life without the additional pressures of starting (and moving) a new 50-70 gal reef. To me it's about priorities, Family, Health, Job, Money, New Relationships, Reef tank. God willing, you have your whole life ahead of you to build a beautiful reef. Dad out!
The amount of time needed to dedicate to a reef is directly correlated to the size of the tank, among other things. Access to RODI water. Storage of water for water changes, disposal of water changes, landlords, smell (at times), spills, etc. It's a lot of work, even for a well established tank, which you do not have. In my opinion, it takes 1 to 2 years to fully establish/stabilize a reef. This is also dependent on the type of rock you purchase and the amount of care and time you apply to the reef.
You are a young guy, in a new home, in a new job, working 60-70 hours a week, "seeking relationships", cooking or eating/drinking out, potentially moving in 1 to 2 years.
If you were my son, , I'd say stay with the pico, or maybe go up to a 5 - 7 gallon and enjoy your new life without the additional pressures of starting (and moving) a new 50-70 gal reef. To me it's about priorities, Family, Health, Job, Money, New Relationships, Reef tank. God willing, you have your whole life ahead of you to build a beautiful reef. Dad out!