I hate getting involved in these conversations... A lot of flameage starts up on this topic. A major reason DSB's crash is because people treat it as plug and play. Set it and forget it is bad news for a DSB. You can't set it up and forget about it. The sand dissolves (increased buffer capacity in DSB). This takes real estate away from the anarobic bacteria (O2 gets further down). As the lower levels gain more and more O2, anarobic crashes. You have to replenish your sand at least every year. I add at least 10 to 20 pounds per year. This forces the aerobic back up due to lack of O2 and gives anarobic room.
Some also do too much. Manually stirring sand is a bad choice. You could cause much of you anarobic to crash very rapidly. A bunch of nassarius snails, sand sifting stars and a watchman goby will do plenty of stirring for you. High flow which causes a little bit of the sand to move around is also good. When I say a little, I really mean a little bit, not a full blown sand storm. I feel too many people are afraid of high flow in DSB tanks. When I first added my tunze 6100's, I kept them low. Around 30%. After a while, sand moved around and I was able to bring 1 to 80% and the other to 100%.
As for BB not being asthetically pleasing, I would have to disagree with that too. I've seen the BB's some guys on this site are running and you can't even see the bottom of the tank. If not covered by corals, they are purple from coralline.
Remote sand beds are effective. Even smaller ones. In order to get the most out of it, the surface area of the remote bed should be at least 75% of the surface area of the main display. Again, that is to get the most out of it. Smaller remote beds do work.
Personally, I like DSB's. Always been good to me. I will also add that I have never had one set up for more than 6 years due to upgrades. My current DSB on my 180 has been there for 2 years. I don't plan to have it up for more than 3 more years(I plan to get a new house in the next 3 years... if I upgrade on the house, I have to upgrade the reef) so I can't say from exerience that it can last decades. I think the big thing to keep in mind is that if you do go BB, the asthetic issue goes away pretty quickly, but you've also got to spend the money on the skimmer (I believe you would need a quality skimmer rated to approximately double your water volume... solbby, please correct me if I'm wrong) as well as all the bells and whistles to give you great water flow. That is not to say you shouldn't have those things in a DSB. I just feel the DSB is more forgiving. One last thing, I feel SSB's are useless. They are nothing more than a place for crap to accumulate and cause high nitrates. Just my 2 cents.