Words on forum will never rightfully convey how truly sorry I am read about your baby brothers passing.
Since you mention the dilemma about his tank, I say dont do anything for the next few weeks, maybe even months, just maintain his tank the best you can, tear it down if you find it to difficult to deal with right now.
Once you are ready to deal with the fish tanks again I would recommend designing one single tank, combine your tank with his and make it his memorial. Design the tank exactly how he would love to see while still giving it a small touch of your own style, make it such that you can run the tank for years to come.
In the long run maintaining 1 tank is more feasible then multiple, given your sentiment towards his tank, I say keep it alive by designing one single tank dedicated to him.
Just my humble opinion as a father of a 7 year old and mourner in my own right.
Since you mention the dilemma about his tank, I say dont do anything for the next few weeks, maybe even months, just maintain his tank the best you can, tear it down if you find it to difficult to deal with right now.
Once you are ready to deal with the fish tanks again I would recommend designing one single tank, combine your tank with his and make it his memorial. Design the tank exactly how he would love to see while still giving it a small touch of your own style, make it such that you can run the tank for years to come.
In the long run maintaining 1 tank is more feasible then multiple, given your sentiment towards his tank, I say keep it alive by designing one single tank dedicated to him.
Just my humble opinion as a father of a 7 year old and mourner in my own right.
. He would sit and watch in amazement . I would've done it sooner but I know they need special food with a separate tank and care. I just wanted use to know he loved this hobby till the end and wanted to keep his name alive .
