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jf2381

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I like to take this moment to thank all the members that prayed and wish that my wife would recover from HCC.
She fought a long battle and tried everything that we could to help her beat this awful disease.

There was a period that things were looking up and we thought that she might beat it. However, all that the treatment did was extend her life so we could enjoy her company a little longer. During this period she set out to make as many good memories as possible with us.

On Friday at 7:31 PM. She took her last breath and her suffering ended. She left behind a 12 and a 8 yr old. This decease took the best part of my life and left a huge hole in my heart that will never be able to be filled.

She was an inspiration to all that were blessed enough to meet her.
She overcame cancer twice. The first time was in 98, then again in 2000. She was told that she would never be able to have kids, and she over came that. During the birth of our second child, she developed Cardiomyopathy. She was on the heart transplant list for about a year. Her name came off the list after her ejection fraction made huge huge turn out around and no longer needed the transplant.

While battling all these health issues she still managed to obtain her BS in psychology, Masters in business administration and was 1 year away from completing her second masters. She also obtain her teaching license and had her own party planning company. During her free time she volunteered 2 hours a day to be with children that were sick with cancer. She did all this and never once neglected us.

God only knows how much I will miss her.

 
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b-ridge

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God bless. Myself and my family send our condolences. Granted you don't know me and vice versa if there is anything you need or anything me and my family can do don't hesitate to hit me up. If you decide to open up a charity or if there is a foundation I can donate to please let me know. I know hard this is. I lost my daughter almost 6 years ago to trisomy 18.
 

Rob&Gab

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Staten Island
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Stay Strong, Loosing someone is one of the worst feelings. it will be a long battle to overcome. Shes done allot in her life, I wish you the best, You will be in my Prayers Tonight. May she Rest in peace. God bless.
 
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So sorry to hear about your wife. I will pray for you and your children. My son and I lost his dad to cancer 3 years ago, so from experience I can tell you the healing process is slow but take it one day at a time and be patient with yourself. Only time will make it easier to bare. God bless you. She is in the arms of angels now. :-(
 

jr973

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new jersey
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Deeply sorry to hear this awfully terrible news Jose. I had the pleasure of meeting your lovely wife before on more than one occasion aswell as your beautiful kids and you guys seemed like a happy family. I'm glad that you and your kids made these last couple of months count and cherish those memories. As humans we never appreciate something truelly until it's gone I for one always take for granted people and things but, the one thing I just got from your OP is life's too short to take people for granted and make the moments count in life. My prayers go out to you and your children hermanito y "Que Dios la tenja en la Gloria" if you need anything you know u have a friend here you can count on
 

jackson6745

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NJ
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I'm so sorry Jose :( Just not fair.
Jose, if you ever need to clear your mind come out fishing with me (as my guests). I run all kinds of boats out of sheepshead bay, brooklyn. Bring the kids. Totally safe. Ocean air is therapeutic.
 
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masterswimmer

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NY
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So sorry for your loss Jose. May time, the memory of your wonderful time together, the beauty of the two children she left behind, and knowing she is no longer suffering bring you and your family some peace.

Russ
 

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