Let me tell you man between that game and my 55g i have NO spare time! That game is addicting, I run a guild of about 250 people and these people take this game INSANELY serious, There isnt enough room on this post to tell you about the drama ive went through inside that game and the sad part is most of it was with people 25 and older, but we are good now drama has past and everyones happy! But man is it work running a guild in that game!
Check out my guild website www.NiKnights.net , Yes Im a huge Monte Python fan so of course the name is The Knights Who Say NI!
I totally understand what you are going thru. I was playing Everquest for about 5 years. And I was playing Monk class and I had top 3 equiped monk in the server. I was so proud of my character and my guild. But after 5 years into that game and I realized I really needed to quit that game otherwise I can't get out of it my own. So sold the account for $1k and I started WoW.
I liked WoW because it's much more casual style game than EQ. But it wasn't what I wanted. So quited the game all together.
I hope you have a life outside of the game. I know how addictive this kind of games can be. And you have to be very careful.