I don't know if you can find one place with all the answers. Read all the posts you can find.
HQI is often, in common usage, the same as DE, but this is actually incorrect. Len knows all about this, mabye he will post and clear it up or link us to the recent thread that covered it.
I am a big fan of DE lights in mini pendants. Since they come with a UV shield they are difficult to splash or brush against by accident. I like the color of the bulbs, I like the brightness of the light for lower wattage, and I like the lower electrical cost.
At this point I think it comes down to which you like better, as they both will do the job.
RR