I began keeping mangroves back in 1979. Not alot of information was published at the time. But, here are some (of many) key points from my experience that may help you out.
Mangrove seedlings (or are called pods/beans), which have not started to grow leaves, plant them 1 to 2 inches in the sand bed you are trying to grow them in. And leave 1/2 to 2/3 of the pod exposed to air. The water level about another 1 1/2 - 2" or so above the growing medium.
Don't jab them into sand. (They are plants). Scoop the sand out and repack around the pod.
Since they are plants, have a quality "gro-lux" bulb or similiar for them when they are sprouting leaves. I have seen people trying to grow these guys under 40 watt bulbs in their sumps. It just won't do. They will start to grow and will probably die without the proper lighting.
Once growing, mist them with freshwater. Just like a natural rain shower. They need it to remove the small salt deposits built up under the leaves/branches as they grow.
In nature, I always see healthy, mature plants grow in mucky, nutrient areas. You don't see mature plants growing in poor substrates. So, actually I put my plants in a plastic container (3/8 holes drilled to allow water to flow) within the tank. The growing medium is mixed up with fine sand, crushed coral and sterilized potting soil. And on the top, a good layer of crushed coral to keep it compacted.
I have tried to grow these guys without a substrate for their roots. They'll grow with leaves and later die. I feel the substrate is very important.
I had these plants for over six years in a 30 tall with a 20 gallon high placed inverted as a top, and grew to more than 3 feet tall (and trimmed them several times). I had fiddler crabs, mangrove crabs and other creatures growing. It's a swamp! I gave them to a botanist. Now after having two batches of Mangrove Planted Tanks Only (MPTO), I have started to contruct a mangrove refugium to be plumed to my third reef tank that has finished cycling. I will be growing them in a DSB without the inside container tank.
I collected these pods on my many trips to Florida and when I lived there.
Hope this helps. It has worked for me.