I used a 6500k bulb made by Phillips over a FOWLR tank driven by an Icecap, and they work excellent.
But if you want anything bluer then a 6500k bulb, money is better spent on VHO bulbs.
My local HD didn't have the GE version, and two Phillips bulbs only cost me $5.87
So I had even better savings.
I not found any evidence of overdriving NO bulbs shortening their life. Now if you did that with a magnetic ballast I could easily see that happening, but Icecap does not harm bulbs in the same manner. I have been running other NO bulbs overdriven because I had them laying around, and after quite a few months now, I see no black on the ends, or any other signs of degradation.