Whatever you go for, you may find that both the Tomini and the yellow tail cause you problems if they are already well established, but my money would be on the damsel as the likely bully out of the two.
You are fairly limited for space at 72g for schooling species that stay as schoolers permanantly. A common problem with alot of species to be honest, quite often with at least two fish splitting away from the group to form a pair at breeding times as they get older when they will become quite territorial which in a big system isnt such a problem, but in a smaller volume it may cause issues becouse the rest of the group cant escape the agression of the dominant pair.
Cardinals like the Bangaii, and yellow stripe (Apogon cyanosoma)
will initially group, but they commonly spread apart over time into random individuals with a single male dodging about taking a female at breeding times or they split apart into pairs with the males constantly chasing each other about. There are a few smaller species of cardinals like the red spot and black spot that group permanantly, but by and large you need quite a large group and the right type of surrounding as these are mostly found hanging around under large coral heads as small swarms, plus they have a high mortality rate as well...
Green chromis are a good general choice as juvaniles, but yet again when spawning they can get agressive with each other and other similar sized fish, whares the smaller 'but less often seen' blue reef chromis tend to be a little more laid back, with the black bar chromis the easyest going ime (and a very underated fish imo), but even then splitting of the group and seperate territory formation is quite likely without the influence of preditors etc to force them to group.
Out of the Anthia's id say that Pseudoanthias squamipinnis is probably the easyest and most adaptable to captive life and does school permanantly (if not tightly). Although size wise they can get to about 3.5" on average they do take a while to get there ime which is a good thing, but also need a good feeding routine of at least two feeds a day if they are to remain in good condition (preferably more). This needs baring in mind though as the bioload can put a strain on small to medium sized systems unless they have good filtration etc.
If this was a direction you wanted to go in, I would suggest getting 6 small females which will naturally group together, with the most dominant turning male within a few months once settled and feeding well.
I think your volume could take it, but you would be maxed out imo as far as fish load goes from that point forwards and you would need to keep an eagle eye on water quality.
regards
Simon.