I had a micromusa that I bought over a year ago but it did not grow. Then over the past 6 months the polyps got bigger and were almost the size of a dime. And then one day it was all gone with just a skeleton of each head remaining. The only critter I have that maybe could eat it is a pepermint shrimp but he was in the tank over a month and I never saw him bother anything. Do they self distruct?